WHY Annest Namata DEVALUES AND DISCARDS HER PARTNERS

 Why do narcissists seem to pick the worst possible times to discard their partners? Are they really that cold-blooded that they not only break-up with you but also plan to do it at a time that would add insult to injury? What would motivate a narcissist to hurt someone they professed to love so much in such a heartless and brutal manner? THINK!

I have heard many stories of narcissists leaving their partners right before a major holiday, or on their partner’s birthday, or after their partner shared something very personal. I’ve also heard of narcissists ending relationships right before a special planned event, or when their partner was down on their luck, grieving the loss of a loved one or even diagnosed with a serious illness. The list of heartless, cold and calculating ways that narcissists end relationships continues on and on.

It is not your imagination. Indeed, it is true that the narcissist just like annest namata does, will purposely plan the timing of her breakups to occur during times when distress or vulnerability is extremely high in your life.

Narcissists like annest namata thrive from kicking you when you’re down. So take note this narcissist does that. This is irrespective of what you have done for her. She simply jumps to one of the men she has been sleeping around with.

Adding to your troubles and blindsiding you increases the odds that you will hear her say that you have become unhinged by the cruelty of her cold-blooded actions and complete surprise.

She anticipates you to beg, plead and promise to change even more than you already have when she unexpectedly breaks things off with you. Note that if you give her an indication that you have found out her thieving ways and her sluttiness, she will jump ship to make it seem like she has dumped you when in reality it is you who has dumped for what she is-a thieving slut. It is her deranged way of further managing you down the road and fully establishing her superiority and dominance over you. The more that you abandon all dignity in a desperate attempt to try to understand how she could simply dispose of you as though you never meant anything to her, the grander and more in control she feels.

Your pain creates a transitory jolt of self-worth that silences a narcissists nagging feelings of self-loathing. It gives her a temporary rush. Watching your heart break with agony is literally intoxicating to her. To her it’s equivalent to a hit of a drug. Her behaviour, post-discard, may appear almost manic as she becomes drunk in her own premeditated ego boost. Do not be surprised by her slutty behaviour soon after the breakup or misunderstanding.

Flaunting a new  “supply” i.e. a men she has been cheating on you with in your face just days later is her cheap coup de grâce. At the same time she will be denying it as slutty as she is claiming that they are just friends. Emotionally healthy people would feel too ashamed or embarrassed to publicly jump into another relationship so quickly. This narcissist doesn’t. Not in the least. Instead she praises herself how beautiful she is and claims many men want to marry her. Marry a Whore?

Why?

Because the narcissist has most been planning your discard and smearing your reputation behind your back for weeks/months, if not much longer. The narcissists’ supporters won’t think twice hearing that you were replaced so suddenly because they have heard all about your alleged faults and misdeeds for quite some time and they believe the trash they have heard from annest namata. They more than likely will be happy that the “poor” narcissist has found someone to rescue her from the likes of you. Foolish them. I know many of the supporters who believed her lies at the time but are now leaking their wounds and wishing they had taken my advice.

What should you do if your narcissist breaks up with you unexpectedly and smears your character? Absolutely NOTHING! Her arrogance will continue soon after the breakup. Just ignore the narcissistic slut as she brags how she is happy sleeping around with other men. Her “supporters” are still under the influence of the narcissist’s stories just like you were. In fact, you’ve seen sides of the narcissist that her “supporters” have never seen or could never even possibly imagine. Guess what? You still stayed and hung in there in the haze of your cocktail mixed with shots of your own cognitive dissonance and unconditional love.

Do not try to defend yourself to the narcissist or her supporters. This is a waste of precious emotional energy that you will need. Do not try to sway the supporters into siding with you. The narcissist has anticipated the things that you might say and has already countered them by planting a very credible sounding rendition of the truth in the minds of her supporters who believe her trash without thinking logically. For example, annest namata made her supporters believe that she was the one with money and that she was helping me and buying everything and that she had businesses. She made her supporters believe that I was begging and that I needed so bad in my life despite cheating on me with several men and stealing from me. The supporters believed it all. I met this narcissistic slut living in a servant house what they call servant quarters and she could not afford the rent. So how could she have been the one feeding me or looking after me? One has to be foolish to believe her.

Why should I let the narcissist get away with trying to destroy my character and play the victim while I’m the real victim and the one hurting?”

It’s not fair! Did you say? But narcissists like annest namata don’t play fair or by the rules. She is morally deficient and lacks any conscience or morals. For this reason, you can never win a battle against a narcissist. There is no level that she will not stoop to win. I have already outlines all that she does. Your mind may be able to travel to hateful and horrible places, but your conscience will not allow you to pack your suitcase and follow suit.

You never entered the relationship to play games or “win.” You entered the relationship with an open heart and pure intentions. It may appear that the narcissist has “won” as they are running off happily into the sunset with their new soul mate aka victim while you are beyond devastated, just hanging on by your fingertips trying to put the pieces of your life back together and figure out what just happened.

As the fog slowly dissipates and you, like the many of the survivours before you, will learn that there’s a name for the ABUSE you suffered. It’s called narcissistic abuse. You will realise that the narcissist tried to destroy, devalue and then discard you not because you were unworthy or flawed, but actually just the opposite. The narcissist devalues, destroys and discards from a place of insecurity and inferiority. “All cruelty springs from weakness”.

Narcissists believe that if they can destroy and dominate good people who possess qualities that they lack, then they can adopt those qualities through some disordered process of osmosis.

If you’ve been discarded, or have caught the narcissistic slut cheating on you with other men, most likely it’s a tribute to your strength.

I started early seeing through the charade of the narcissist. I began challenging the narcissist on her lies and hypocrisy. I saw her mask slip and caught a glimpse of the evil, phony person that she was hiding from you. At that point, I was no longer a good source of supply. Your expiration date as her narcissistic supplier

whom she had fooled by pretending to be what she is not had arrived.

My inkling or glimpse of the truth of what had been hiding behind the mask invalidated the deluded image the annest namata the narcissist had of herself. Her cover was blown and to survive she needed to discard me so that she doesn’t have to acknowledge the reality of her real, flawed self. To acknowledge the truth of her real-self would shatter the narcissist into pieces from which she could never recover. Lucky I kicked her out and she packed my car with her possessions including some of my property she stole from house and fled to several of the men she was having sex with.

Unfortunately, understanding the motivation and timing behind your dismissal does not lessen the torment of the feelings of pain, heartache, and betrayal. You’ve been lied to, toyed with, and manipulated. Your love has been exploited and used as a weapon against you. Healing from this abuse takes time and tenacity.

When I said that you can never win a battle against a narcissist, I meant that you can never win if you play her stupid cheap games. That doesn’t necessarily mean that you lose. On the contrary, now that the relationship is over, you are no longer her unwilling opponent in her twisted “love” games. You’re sincere, genuine and you believe that love is not a game where there must always be a winner and a loser. Let Annest namata the narcissist play the “You’re Always Going To End Up The Loser Game” with someone else. Sadly she always thinks that she is the winner because she is a whore who uses men one after another like a street whore. You will see her smiling right after a supposed relationship has ended. To her a relationship means nothing more than a sexual encounter for her love of money and material things. She will happily go on bleaching herself and wearing small size tight clothes, wearing open shoes, spending hours in salons to spruce herself at the expense of one man against another to get more men’s attention. The cycle goes on.

You may still feel that the narcissist has won and that’s okay. Be patient with yourself. The more time and distance you have away from the narcissist, the more you’ll realise how mentally and emotionally imprisoned you actually were at the time you were in a relationship with her.

Kick her to the curb like I did. You are FREE of all her nonsensical time and money wasting drama now. You are free of her thieving. You are free of her fraudulent life. You are free of her sleeping around and denying it. You are free of her sexual network. You are free of her dangerous sexual liaisons with all sorts of men of any calibre. You are free of her disgusting slutty life. You are free of her religious born again pretence. So let go of what you know in your mind that she has been doing behind your back. That way you will be available to receive what you truly want and deserve.

This is NOT Character Assassination. This is Real Life Character Revelation.

           

 

HER RELATIONSHIPS CYCLE – Idealize, Devalue and Discard

Annest Namata has no empathy, she is callous, cold, vile and very heartless. She is gifted at deceit, pretence, worthless arrogance and bragging, hypocrisy, thieving to mention but a few and no one is exempt from the harm she can cause. If you’re in a relationship, friendship with her or otherwise, you will definitely eventually be exploited, stolen from and used. You will come to find that the person she pretended to be never ever existed. The tears she cries

if any, are all for fantasy. These insidious qualities will take your friendship or relationship nowhere. Immediately cease contact with her and RUN FOR THE HILLS!!!

Of course the current new friends and men she is fooling, pleasuring and pleasing with sex for the moment, will not believe this truth about her.
Watch this space. Keep on wasting your precious time and money.

It doesn’t matter what you do for her it will never be enough. She will still sleep around with any Tom, Dick and Harry for money and material things. She can have sex with a man if she wants to get the next iPad or iPhone. If you are a girl friend, she will despise you behind your back until she betrays you. Despite all this rotten disgusting behaviour, she claims she is a born again christian.

Because she is a gold digger and very materialistic and money is her God. Annest Namata repeats over and over the same relationship cycle, no matter whom she is dating, having an affair with or in a double relationship with you for however long, if she is not benefiting from stealing from you or prospects of getting your assets, she will sleep around with other men for money.

She brags in kampala Uganda that she is a top class corporate and business woman. SHE IS SIMPLY A CON AND THIEF.
She will pay back the bloody money She steals and the poses she makes. You can manipulate people who need help and support for their businesses and brag in front of people who don’t know your thieving ways. Well now those who are wise know and have listened.
When she was my fiancee she said and sent me an email stating “You want to be the only man giving me good things…” That statement proves she is a whore/slut for life.
She always engages in ‘sexual situationships’ with different men for money then she brags to those who don’t know and claims to be born again.

On another day she said to me “Some men I meet want to do IT for a very long time and I can feel when they are holding it from coming out, I feel like telling them let it come out, u will do it again, I will give it to you and you do it again, so let it come out”. While you are doing something personal and intimate, you hear her saying “You mean you can also do that?”. You then realise and confirm that she is a Slut/Whore. She has sex with many other men all the time. To her that’s the norm.
That is rhetoric of a real whore. She had just revealed her secret. Well by that time she was already known for being a kampala slut who sleeps around with anyone whom she wants money from.. After the sexual encounter she starts chasing the men for the money they promised her.. She had just revealed her secret. Well by that time she was already known for being a kampala slut who sleeps around with anyone whom she wants money from.. After the sexual encounter she starts chasing the men for the money they promised her.. She had just revealed her secret. Well by that time she was already known for being a kampala slut who sleeps around with anyone whom she wants money from.. After the sexual encounter she starts chasing the men for the money they promised her.

Relationships with her are always castles–or, sometimes, marriages–built on sand. All the while her father is ringing her and asking how much money the man will give for what she is giving him and whether he will give him a chance to own cows.

I’ll describe the entire process of Annest Namata’s psychopathic seduction, from its pretentious ideal beginning to its invariably bitter end:-

The psychopathic bond follows certain predictable stages: idealize, devalue and discard. This process may take several years or only a few hours. It all depends on what the psychopath wants from you and whether or not you present a challenge to her. If Annest Namata the psychopath wants the semblance of respectability–a screen behind which she can hide her perverse nature and appear harmless and normal–she may establish a long-term partnership with you or even marry you.
If all she wants is to have some fun, it will be over when it suits her gold digging plans and based on what she has stolen from you. She will then tell you “we are just friends who want to do business to pass”. If she wants the stimulation and diversion of an affair, she may stay with you for as long as you excite her. Despite the differences in timeline, what remains constant is this: eventually, sooner or later, you’ll be discarded (or be led by the psychopath’s bad behaviour to discard her) as soon as you no longer serve her needs.

She is highly manipulative, so the process of idealize, devalue and discard is a natural outgrowth of her personality.

Idealization, Devaluation, and Discard

This is something more commonly done in romantic relationships with Annest Namata the narcissist rather than friendships, but it can be found in both. This is a cycle that can be extremely damaging to a person, yet it’s something that this narcissist will do without thinking twice.

The beginning of the relationship starts with great idealization. She will make you feel like you’re the most important thing in her life. This will involve flattery, praise, and telling you she has found her soulmate. This will push you deeper into the relationship, and motivate you to reciprocate the praise you feel yourself.
Suddenly, this will change with the more men she has sex with. Instead of receiving praise and flattery, you’ll start to feel criticized for everything you do. You may get some praise here or there, but mostly you’ll be chastised for your actions. During the devaluation phase of the cycle, you’ll feel a great deal of psychological and emotional abuse.
During the assessment phase, Annest Namata interacts closely with her targets to see what makes them tick. She asks probing questions, to discover the targets unfulfilled needs and weaknesses. She also commonly lures her targets with promises to offer them whatever’s been missing from their lives. If you’re recovering from a recent divorce, she will offer you friendship and an exciting new romantic relationship with promises of being the best woman you have ever met. If you’ve suffered a death in the family, she will appear to be very sympathetic and helpful in any way as a friend. If you’re going through financial difficulties, she will steal money to lend you to seem generous. She cannot help with her own money. Never. If you are new to the environment or area, she will court you with the sole aim of getting something from you. She does not become close to you for genuine reasons for pure friendship. To Annest it is about what she will get/gain from you. She is a leech and a very dangerous one.
During the manipulation phase, Annest Namata constructs the “psychopathic fiction.” She pours on the charm to hook her victims emotionally and gain their trust. She presents herself as a kind-hearted individual. Then her thieving fangs come out.

Of course, in order to do so, Annest Namata resorts to outrageous lies since in reality, she is just the opposite. In romantic relationships in particular, she depicts herself as not only compatible with you, but also as your soul mate. While seeming your compliment, she also presents herself as your mirror image. She will claim to share your interests and sensibilities.
This psychological bond capitalizes on your inner personality, holding out the promise of greater depth and possibly intimacy, and offering a relationship that is special, unique, equal–forever. DON’T BE FOOLED.

Because Annest Namata the psychopath is a great manipulator, convincing liar, and uses her body, most of her victims don’t heed the warning signals. For her, everything is about image i.e. how she looks to the people out there. She will waste your money while she tries anything to look rich to those who don’t know her but think they do. She doesnt care about you. She never has and never will.

During the early phases of a romantic relationship, people in general tend to be too blinded by the euphoria of falling in love to focus on noticing red flags. Also, during this period, Annest Namata is on her best behaviour. Yet, generally speaking, she gets bored too easily to be able to maintain her mask of sanity consistently for very long. The honeymoon phase of the relationship usually lasts until this psychopath intuitively senses that she’s got you on the hook or until she’s gotten bored by the relationship and moved on to other targets i.e. other men. She shows her true colours when she’s got no incentive left to pretend anymore.

This raises the question of why Annest idealizes her targets in the first place. She idolized me and used to kneel for me when serving me food or drinks. I never asked her to kneel for me. In fact I asked her why she was kneeling for me and she claimed it was respect for me being her man. #NonsensicalBullshit. So dream on if you think she is genuine to you.
Annest Namata suffers from a shallowness of emotion that makes her bonding ephemeral and superficial, at best. When she wants something like money or material things –or someone–she pursues that goal with all her might. When that goal is your money or a job or something outside of yourself, her pursuit may appear somewhat fake IF YOU ARE CAREFUL TO TAKE NOTICE. You’re a JUST means to an end. In reality, you were never idealized for yourself, but for something else.
But when her goal is actually you–seducing you or even marrying you–then her pursuit feels like an idealization. Temporarily, you represent the object of her desire, the answer to her needs, the love of her life and the key to her happiness. SO YOU THINK. But this feeling of euphoria doesn’t last long because it’s very empty to the core.

She uses sex to sell after holding so-called healthy living dinners and fooling people with claims of healthy products. I am talking about flirting techniques when she meets men so that she can appear attractive and ends up with most in the Hotels and Guest houses. In her mind this keeps her attractive to customers and prospective customers. Notice how she dresses, how she walks and behaves around men and giving people the impression she has a lot of money aka independent. A simple example is those 2 phones she carries around are bought by men she has slept with. #IndependentMyFoot.

She has been bragging for years how she is the Events guru of the world. So how after stealing from the company she worked for has she become overnight a healthy living guru?? You cannot become a healthy eating expert over night when you have been in an entirely different industry and have no legal or food tech training. She has nothing to show for it. She worked for one company and all she did was steal money from the company. Bragging and stealing plus sleeping around with different men is all she is good at.

Also, keep in mind that this psychopath twists the truth to fit her momentary goals and to play mind games with you. When you actually pay attention to what she says instead of being impressed by how sincere she may appear, her narratives often sound inconsistent and implausible.
Annest Namata commonly projects her own flaws upon others. If she tells you she was seduced, it was most likely the other way around. If she tells you that her previous boyfriends mistreated her, cheated on her, got bored of her, abandoned her, listen carefully, since that’s probably what she did to those men.

Her lies serve a dual function. They help establish credibility with you as well as giving her the extra thrill of deceiving you yet again and getting you hooked so that you can trust her with your money and assets. #Hooker
Once she gets bored with you because the spell of the initial conquest has worn off, the way she maintains control of you is through deception, isolation, abuse, gaslighting, undermining your self-confidence and denying you sex because she is getting it from other men. The more you struggle to meet Annest Namata’s demands, the more she’ll ask of you. Until you have nothing left to give because you realise you are in a relationship with a Slut.
Such a relationship is one-sided and distorted. It’s a sham. Being a consummate narcissist, she loves no one but herself and cares about nothing but her selfish desires.

All she is after is your money, business, your material things like property and land and she is after your passport and foreign citizenship if you are in that category. She wants a K1 Visa from you if you live in the US or have the citizenship. She will want you for your citizenship if you have one for any foreign country.

And even though you may be capable of love, you’re not in love with the real her–the cheater, the liar, the manipulator, the player, the hollow, heartless being that she is–but with the charming illusion she created, which you initially believed but which becomes increasingly implausible over time.

From beginning to end, all this phony relationship can offer you is a toxic combination of fake love. She constructs the psychopathic bond through deception and manipulation. You maintain it through self-sacrifice and denial.
When all is said and done, the only truth that remains is that the whole relationship was a fraud because all she is after is your money and material things and she steals from you at all costs while she is pretending to love you. She even steals from her female friends. She will be as patient as she can be but ultimately her goal is to get money and material things from you.
For your information, all that Annest Namata is after is your money, houses, cars, you giving her money to buy clothes and shoes she can show off with, money from you to buy land in kampala and her village in Itojo, money from you to constantly change cars, money from you to constantly change the decor in the house, etc
All the while behind your back she will be bragging that you are very desperate for her, you are crazy for her and claiming that your business is her business, she is spending her own money and calling you stupid.

She is very good at faking it. She knows how to attract others and persuade people into placing misguided emotional investments into a relationship that doesn’t actually exist and a complete waste of time and money invested. She is NOT a woman worth investing in at all,

THE OUTCOME IS INEVITABLE;

This narcissist is no princess. She is a parasite; a vampire; a soulless creature that masquerades as your Princess charming and claims that she is religious and trustworthy. DON’T be foolish to believe her.

While at the beginning it feels good to feel like her hero as she will pretend she is appreciating, writing quotations of what you say on her Facebook wall, Annest Namata the promiscuous gold digger will only continue to suck you dry emotionally and financially. Watch!! You definitely deserve better than that fake “orange skin bleached, rotten mannered thief” who calls herself annest namata.

This is NOT Character Assassination. This is Real Life Character Revelation