Many of us like to think the best of other people especially the people in our lives. We like to think that they are straight, forthright and honest in their intentions. We also like to believe that they will ask for what they want, work with you and not resort to immoral promiscuous gold digging behaviour outside the relationship to get it behind our backs.
Unfortunately however, there are times when we come across a pretentious Gold Digging evil person like Annest Namata who does anything to be overly dangerously manipulative. Being manipulated never feels good, but the worst part of manipulation is that often, we don’t even realize that she is doing it because we are being honest and she is busy being evil.
She is so selfishly evil yet she claims and makes those who don’t know her well THINK she is religious and a nice honest person. Don’t let her fool you. She is evil and very very vindictive.
Manipulative behaviour is not a physical action, but spoken words behind your back and subtle stares and odd glances. She is very good at all this. Manipulation is a form of communication that is often designed to make you feel wrong, ashamed or guilty of your own opinions, ideas, or preferences. SHE HAS NO SHAME IN HER GAME.
Annest Namata the thief Deactivates/Reactivates her Facebook Account after seducing men on-line !
DO NOT EXPECT ANY MODESTY FROM HER. ALL SHE DOES IS DRESS SEDUCTIVELY i.e. tight small cloths TO GET ATTENTION FROM MEN EVERYWHERE SHE GOES FOR HER SECRET PROMISCUOUS SERVICES FOR MONEY AND MATERIAL THINGS.
Annest Namata will continually argue against your opinions in order to act like she knows it all, and she doesn’t hear what you are saying most of the time. Know that you are dealing with a serial manipulator. #Fact
She does anything to get what she wants from people by using dirty sneaky, underhanded, double-crossing, two-faced tactics. Habitually manipulative Annest Namata is good at looking and acting innocent, even when her behaviour is anything but. She will do anything it takes to win control of a situation by manipulating people against each other. She can put you in a difficult spot, causing you unnecessary stress, discomfort, or even injury in the name of furthering her own selfish materialistic agenda. That’s how dangerously selfish she is.
Habitual manipulative Annest counts on her victims’ fears of embarrassment and looking bad to other people. She brazenly sets up situations that will make her look morally superior to others.
HERE ARE A FEW WAYS TO KNOW HOW & WHEN ANNEST NAMATA IS MANIPULATING YOU:-
First of all, DO NOT fall for her pretentious smile and pretentious actions as if she is a good honest person. She is very good at acting like she is a good and honest person. All she is aiming for is her selfish endeavours. You will not be spared as soon as you turn your back.
Buttering You Up: To get her way, Annest Namata the manipulator will initially make you feel good so that she can then ask you to do something that she wants from you that benefits ONLY her. She will first compliment you, tell you what you want to hear or tell you what a wonderful job you did on something. Making you feel good will, in her mind, make it difficult for you to say no…after all, you wouldn’t want to disappoint her or give her reason to think you didn’t deserve the compliment in the first place. Beware of her evil ways disguised.
Guilt: Guilt trips are her.successful manipulation tactic. The saddest part of this strategy is that the victims of this tactic succumb to Annest Namata’s manipulating demands because they feel they HAVE to, not because they WANT to. That’s why she brings up her upbringing and will lie about suffering, lies that she suffered in previous relationships, etc. This sets up a co-dependency on her and she starts stealing from you, disrespecting you and sleeping around behind your back which is extremely unhealthy. This is because she uses her manipulation and her guilt for the secret affairs she is having to make you think she is being faithful.
Broken Record: The most obvious of formats is the broken record tactic. If she asks you so many times repeatedly making promises that are exaggerated or pushes her agenda repeatedly… constantly repeating the question or request over and over again…in slightly different ways, the victim will inevitably give in and give her what she wants. She did this to me for more than two years asking me to trust her. Her aim ultimately was to steal from me because I eventually trusted her thinking she was being honest as a religious honest person. I was dead wrong. She is evil, promiscuous and a thief.
Selective Memory: This one gets me the most. You swear you have a conversation with her about a plan and both of you are on the same page, and then one day, Annest Namata the manipulator pretends to remember the conversation and agreement completely differently only to suit her purpose and agenda, if at all. She will then pursue her own new lie and spread the word to anyone who listens based on her new lies. Or she will say ” We are friends who want to do business to pass”- She has used you and got what she wanted from you and moved on to the next victim. She says the same thing to men she has slept with for money and material things.
What you can do: Record your conversations…seriously! Okay, maybe not. At least have a witness that you can count on to back you up if Annest pulls this shenanigan. keep records of communication because she will deny saying or writing things she promised to do. Call her out on the fact that she conveniently changed the promise/vow to fit her selfish needs. She does this in her private and work life.
Bullying: Her “He said, She said” talk. If Annest doesn’t get her way, she’ll make you out to look or feel like the bad guy…like you are the wrong one. She will also name drop to make out she is very influential and important. She is just a “wanna be” and a gold digger. Be firm and show her that her bullying manipulative tactics are inappropriate and unacceptable and cannot be accepted.
Playing the Victim Role – Her tactic involves portraying herself as an innocent victim of circumstances or someone else’s behaviour in order to gain sympathy, evoke compassion and thereby get something from another. Her covert-aggressive personality counts on the fact that less calloused and less hostile personalities usually can’t stand to see anyone suffering. Therefore, the tactic is simple. She thinks that by convincing her victim(s) that she is suffering in some way, and she’ll try to relieve her distress by looking for empathy and people to side with her.
She manipulates you and allows that supposed belief to serve as an excuse for her undisciplined aggression and cheating. Take charge of your life.
Playing the Servant Role – She uses this tactic to cloak her self-serving agendas in the guise of service to a more noble cause. It’s a common tactic but difficult to recognize. By pretending to be working hard on someone else’s behalf, offering to do things for you more often without you asking, Annest Namata conceals her own selfish ambition, desire for power and most of all money, and quest for a position of dominance over others. Don’t fall for her trickery into making you believe she is a good faithful honest person.
The only master she serves is her own selfish ambition. It’s the cornerstone upon which all her corrupt ministerial delusional empires of all types are built. E.g. Lies like “he made me suffer“, “he made me a slave“, “he wants to kidnap me“.
Seduction – She is adept at charming, praising, flattering or overtly supporting others temporarily in order to get them to lower their defences and surrender their trust and loyalty to her. DO NOT BE FOOLED BY HER PRETENCE AND SLUTTY ACTIONS. Her seduction comes in different modes i.e. what she says that seems inclusive and constructive, what she wears, her seductive “slut walk” meant to seduce you (as someone said she walks like an old dog), exposing too much skin, following you the man and offering to do abc even when not asked, etc. So use your moral etiquette and self respect to decipher her immorality. She wears open shoes most of the time because she believes it gets mens attention. So beware of her slutty ways.
She is particularly aware that people who are to some extent emotionally needy and dependent (and that includes most people who aren’t character-disordered) want approval, reassurance, and a sense of being valued and needed more than anything. Appearing to be attentive to these needs can be a manipulator’s ticket to incredible power over others. You don’t find out how unimportant you really are by being used by her until you turn out to be in her way. She uses people in everything she does and everywhere she goes.
Projecting the blame (blaming others) – Aggressive personalities are always looking for a way to shift the blame for their aggressive behaviour. She always looks for scapegoats, and she does it in a subtle, hard to detect way. She will go to a great length to spread her lies to people who do not know you but because she has a lot of time on her hands, the innocent bystanders believe her lies. This is why I am presenting the clear evidence of what she is in this format.
Keep your eyes open for these behaviours and continue to stand your ground to ensure that you aren’t a victim of her manipulation. Have you noticed any other types of manipulative behaviour from her? I bet you have.
All of us have weaknesses and insecurities that a master manipulator like Annest Namata is ready to exploit. Sometimes, we’re aware of these weaknesses and how someone might use them to take advantage of you. Manipulative Annest knows what buttons to push, when and how hard. Our lack of self-knowledge, generosity and genuine honesty sets us up to be exploited by people like her.
It is important to pay attention to your intuition – if it feels wrong to be with her or do anything with her, then it is. Awareness of her manipulative behaviour is very important, otherwise it is easy to slowly become brainwashed into thinking she is honest and righteous and you will start to doubt yourself. The best solution is to not play to her self-centred manipulative games.
Annest makes her manipulating actions look insignificant, while your actions come off as unreasonable or uncooperative. So watch her manipulating dangerous games behind your back.
Annest Namata’s religious claims simply shows that not all people who claim they are “saved/Born again, are religious or have any morals. She claims she grew up in a monastery. That’s a lie. She certainly does NOT have any morals. Somewhere in the Bible when a man was pleading to God saying he preached the word and led many to God, God answered “go I don’t know you” – Hypocrisy.
Be prepared to look bad for publicly defending your boundaries, especially when you call Annest Namata the manipulator on her rude behaviour. Some people might see your (my) reactions as excessive because they only know what they’ve observed or heard from Annest the manipulator based on what she wants them to hear and see.Take heart. They don’t know the whole true story and, chances are, if they keep hanging around Annest Namata the manipulator, they’ll start to understand your (my) predicament before too long. It’s only a matter of time. I know some who have got to know who she really is and what she really is.
She is very manipulative and controlling therefore will never change those behaviours. She thinks why should she change when she can get what she wants from unsuspecting and naive people? The only time manipulative Annest Namata might change is when it’s advantageous for her to do so and, in those rare circumstances, the change is temporary. You will not be able to change her and she won’t choose to change for your benefit. The wake up call is long overdue.
She is incapable of any empathy. Therefore, trying to get her to understand your point of view is pretty much a total waste of time. It’s like talking to a wall.
Manipulators like Annest Namata are habitual to blackmailing people with her dealings. Hence, never borrow anything from her or worst of all lend anything to a her. If you owe manipulating Annest anything, repay her as soon as possible. In case IF Annest the manipulator owes you anything, be prepared to let it go or make sure you stick to your ground and claim it. She can play her stupid games or threatening, it is all a facade. Else, you can have a signed and dated document, allowing you to ask her for repayment. Have proof, otherwise she will deny owing you anything. She owes people money, even in shops around kampala she owes money for things she is wearing and using and hasn’t paid for but she claims she paid it when she never. Make an informed choice.
She is evil and made me realise that there are people like her who sleep around with every Tom, Dick and Harry, use people, are thieves and yet are arrogant for doing people wrong whilst contradicting herself by claiming she is Born Again/Saved..
Sexual partners should be treated like rare wines, not like two buck chucks. We are often told to respect our own bodies, but it is important that we understand that sex is an action between two people and not everybody who offers money, material things and favours, thus two bodies need to be respected. But what self-respect does Annest Namata have when she is sleeping around? She will make your life a living hell unless you want to share her with many other men and share her constant promiscuous drama.
EVERYWHERE I WENT WITH HER AND INTRODUCED HER OR IF I ASKED HER TO MEET PEOPLE ON MY BEHALF, THEY ALL WERE NOT COMFORTABLE WITH HER AND THEY ALL DOUBTED HER. THEY ALL SAID “THERE IS SOMETHING ABOUT THAT WOMAN THAT MAKES THEM NOT TRUST HER AND UNCOMFORTABLE”. SOME HAD SEEN HER WITH DIFFERENT MEN IN TOWN AND COULDN’T TELL ME. I ALWAYS DEFENDED HER, EVERY TIME. WHAT A MISTAKE. I asked someone to change my Land title into her names and the man refused and told me she looks like the Evil Gold Diggers in kampala. He was so so right. They were all right and I was wrong. She is indeed a Gold Digger and a Thief.
She’ll look back one day at what we had, and regret every single thing she did to destroy it all the for the sake of sleeping around and stealing my money. Is her sleeping around worth it? Is it worth sleeping around? Was it worth sleeping around behind my back all the while disrespecting my late mother by putting her pictures face down and stealing her money. Was it worth stealing my money? She will answer that in court. SHE THINKS SHE IS VERY SPECIAL.
“More important than the quest for certainty is the quest for clarity” – Francois Gautier