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HER RELATIONSHIPS CYCLE – Idealize, Devalue and Discard

03 Feb

Annest Namata has no empathy, she is callous, cold, vile and very heartless.  She is gifted at deceit, pretence, worthless arrogance and bragging, hypocrisy, thieving to mention but a few and no one is exempt from the harm she can cause. If you’re in a relationship, friendship with her or otherwise, you will eventually be exploited, stolen from and used. You will come to find that the person she pretended to be never ever existed. The tears she criesnew-samsung-pix-7090 if any are all for fantasy. These insidious qualities will take your friendship or relationship nowhere. Immediately cease contact with her and RUN FOR THE HILLS!!!  Of course the current new friends and men she is fooling and pleasing for the moment, will not believe this truth about her. Watch this space. Keep on wasting your time and money.

It doesn’t matter what you do for her it will never be enough. She will still sleep around with any Tom, Dick and Harry for money. If you are a girl friend, she will despise you behind your back until she betrays you. Despite all this rotten disgusting behaviour, she claims she is a born again christian.

81d62fb31742f3a837305498ab2fd0cc Because she is a gold digger and very materialistic and money is her God. Annest Namata repeats over and over the same relationship cycle, no matter whom she is dating, having an affair with or in a double relationship with you for however long, if she is not benefiting from stealing from you or prospects of getting your assets, she will sleep around with other men for money. 

She will pay the bloody money She steals and the poses she makes. You can manipulate people who need help and support for their businesses and brag in front of people who don’t know your thieving ways. Well now they know.

When she was my fiancee she said and sent me an email stating “You want to be the only man giving me good things…” That statement proves she is a whore/slut for life.

She always engages in ‘sexual situationships’ with different men for money then she brags to those who dont know.hqdefault

On another day she said to meSome men I meet want to do it for a very long time and I can feel when they are holding it from coming out, I feel like telling them let it come out, u will do it again, I will give it to you and you do it again, so let it come out”. While you are doing something, you hear her saying “You mean you can also do that?”. You then realise and confirm that she is a Slut. 

That is rhetoric of a real whore. She had just revealed her secret. Well by that time she was already known for being a kampala slut who sleeps around with anyone whom she wants money from..

 Relationships with her are always castles–or, sometimes, marriages–built on sand. All the while her father is ringing her and asking how much money the man will give for what she is giving him and whether he will give him a chance to own cows.

I’ll describe the entire process of Annest Namata’s psychopathic seduction, from its pretentious ideal beginning to its invariably bitter end:

201611221479811836425934zi-yr1yie84 The psychopathic bond follows certain predictable stages: idealize, devalue and discard. This process may take several years or only a few hours. It all depends on what the psychopath wants from you and whether or not you present a challenge to her. If Annest Namata the psychopath wants the semblance of respectability–a screen behind which she can hide her perverse nature and appear harmless and normal–she may establish a long-term partnership with you or even marry you.

 If all she wants is to have some fun, it will be over when it suits her gold digging plans and based on what she has stolen from you. She will then tell you “we are just friends who want to do business to pass”. If she wants the stimulation and diversion of an affair, she may stay with you for as long as you excite her. Despite the differences in timeline, what remains constant is this: eventually, sooner or later, you’ll be discarded (or be led by the psychopath’s bad behaviour to discard her) as soon as you no longer serve her needs.

 She is highly manipulative, so the process of idealize, devalue and discard is a natural outgrowth of her personality.

Idealization, Devaluation, and Discard

This is something more commonly done in romantic relationships with Annest Namata the narcissist rather than friendships, but it can be found in both. This is a cycle that can be extremely damaging to a person, yet it’s something that this narcissist will do without thinking twice.images-29

The beginning of the relationship starts with great idealization. She will make you feel like you’re the most important thing in her life. This will involve flattery, praise, and telling you she has found her soulmate. This will push you deeper into the relationship, and motivate you to reciprocate the praise you feel yourself.

Suddenly, this will change with the more men she has sex with. Instead of receiving praise and flattery, you’ll start to feel criticized for everything you do. You may get some praise here or there, but mostly you’ll be chastised for your actions. During the devaluation phase of the cycle, you’ll feel a great deal of psychological and emotional abuse.

During the assessment phase, Annest Namata interacts closely with her targets to see what makes them tick. She asks probing questions, to discover the targets unfulfilled needs and weaknesses. She also commonly lures her targets with promises to offer them whatever’s been missing from their lives. If you’re recovering from a recent divorce, she will offer you friendship and an exciting new romantic relationship with promises of being the best woman you have ever met. If you’ve suffered a death in the family, she will appear to be very sympathetic and helpful in any way as a friend. If you’re going through financial difficulties, she will steal money to lend you to seem generous. She cannot help with her own money. Never. If you are new to the environment or area, she will court you with the sole aim of getting something from you. She does not become close to you for genuine reasons for pure friendship. To Annest it is about what she will get/gain from you. She is a leech and a very dangerous one.

During the manipulation phase, Annest Namata constructs the “psychopathic fiction.” She pours on the charm to hook her victims emotionally and gain their trust. She presents herself as a kind-hearted individual. Then the thieving fangs come out.new-samsung-pix-7488-copy

Of course, in order to do so, Annest Namata resorts to outrageous lies since, in reality, she is just the opposite. In romantic relationships in particular, she depicts herself as not only compatible with you, but also as your soul mate. While seeming your compliment, she also presents herself as your mirror image. She will claim to share your interests and sensibilities.

This psychological bond capitalizes on your inner personality, holding out the promise of greater depth and possibly intimacy, and offering a relationship that is special, unique, equal–forever. DON’T BE FOOLED.

Because Annest Namata the psychopath is a great manipulator, convincing liar, and uses her body, most of her victims don’t heed the warning signals. For her everything is about image i.e how she looks to the people out there. She will make you go broke while she tries anything to look rich to those who don’t know her but think they do. She doesnt care about you.

During the early phases of a romantic relationship, people in general tend to be too blinded by the euphoria of falling in love to focus on noticing red flags. Also, during this period, Annest Namata is on her best behaviour. Yet, generally speaking, she gets bored too easily to be able to maintain her mask of sanity consistently for very long. The honeymoon phase of the relationship usually lasts until this psychopath intuitively senses that she’s got you on the hook or until she’s gotten bored by the relationship and moved on to other targets i.e. other men. She shows her true colours when she’s got no incentive left to pretend anymore.new-samsung-pix-7489-copy

This raises the question of why Annest idealizes her targets in the first place. She idolized me and used to kneel for me when serving me food or drinks. I never asked her to kneel for me. Infact I asked her why she was kneeling for me and she claimed it was respect. #NonsensicalBullshit. So dream on if you think she is genuine.

Annest Namata suffers from a shallowness of emotion that makes her bonding ephemeral and superficial, at best. When she wants something like money or material things –or someone–she pursues that goal with all her might. When that goal is your money or a job or something outside of yourself, her pursuit may appear somewhat fake IF YOU ARE CAREFUL TO TAKE NOTICE. You’re a JUST means to an end. In reality, you were never idealized for yourself, but for something else.

But when her goal is actually you–seducing you or even marrying you–then her pursuit feels like an idealization. Temporarily, you represent the object of her desire, the answer to her needs, the love of her life and the key to her happiness. SO YOU THINK. But this feeling of euphoria doesn’t last long because it’s very empty to the core.

images-2She uses sex to sell after holding so-called healthy living dinners and fooling people with claims of healthy products. I am talking about flirting techniques when she meets men so that she can appear attractive and ends up with most in the hotels and Guest houses. In her mind this keeps her attractive to customers and prospective customers. Notice how she dresses, how she walks and behaves around men and giving people the impression she has a lot of money aka independent. Independent my foot.

She has been bragging for years how she is the Events guru of the world. So how after stealing fromdelusions-for-dcmta1 the company she worked for has she become overnight a healthy living guru??  You cannot become a healthy eating expert over night when you have been in an entirely different industry and have no legal or food tech training. She has nothing to show for it. She worked for one company and all she did was steal money from the company. Bragging and stealing plus sleeping around with different men is all she is good at.

Also, keep in mind that this psychopath twists the truth to fit her momentary goals and to play mind games with you. When you actually pay attention to what she says instead of being impressed by how sincere she may appear, her narratives often sound inconsistent and implausible.

Annest Namata commonly projects her own flaws upon others. If she tells you she was seduced, it was most likely the other way around. If she tells you that her previous boyfriends mistreated her, cheated on her, got bored of her, abandoned her, listen carefully, since that’s probably what she did to those men.are-you-imitating-or-idolizing

Her lies serve a dual function. They help establish credibility with you as well as giving her the extra thrill of deceiving you yet again and getting you hooked so that you can trust her with your money and assets. #Hooker

Once she gets bored with you because the spell of the initial conquest has worn off, the way she maintains control of you is through deception, isolation, abuse, gaslighting, undermining your self-confidence and denying you sex because she is getting it from other men. The more you struggle to meet Annest Namata’s demands, the more she’ll ask of you. Until you have nothing left to give because you realise you are in a relationship with a Slut.

Such a relationship is one-sided and distorted. It’s a sham. Being a consummate narcissist, she loves no one but herself and cares about nothing but her selfish desires.

All she is after is your money, business, your material things like property and land and she is after your passport and foreign citizenship if you are in that category. She wants a K1 Visa from you if you live in the US or have the citizenship. She will want you for your citizenship if you have one for any foreign country.images

And even though you may be capable of love, you’re not in love with the real her–the cheater, the liar, the manipulator, the player, the hollow, heartless being that she is–but with the charming illusion she created, which you initially believed but which becomes increasingly implausible over time.

From beginning to end, all this phony relationship can offer you is a toxic combination of fake loveShe constructs the psychopathic bond through deception and manipulation. You maintain it through self-sacrifice and denial.

When all is said and done, the only truth that remains is that the whole relationship was a fraud because all she is after is your money and material things and she steals from you at all costs while she is pretending to love you. She even steals from her female friends. She will be as patient as she can be but ultimately her goal is to get money and material things from you.

For your information, all that Annest Namata is after is your money, houses, cars, you giving her money to buy clothes and shoes she can show off with, money from you to buy land in kampala and her village in Itojo, money from you to constantly change cars, money from you to constantly change the decor in the house, etc

All the while behind your back she will be bragging that you are very desperate for her, you are crazy for her and claiming that your business is her business, she is spending her own money and calling you stupid.

She is very good at faking it. She knows how to attract others and persuade people into placing misguided emotional investments into a relationship that doesn’t actually exist.

THE OUTCOME IS INEVITABLE;

This narcissist is no princess. She is a parasite; a vampire; a soulless creature that masquerades as your Princess Charming.

While at the beginning it feels good to feel like her hero as she will pretend she is appreciating, writing quotations of what you say on her Facebook wall, Annest Namata the promiscuous gold digger will only continue to suck you dry emotionally and financially. Watch!! You definitely deserve better than that fake “orange skin bleached, rotten mannered thief” who calls herself annest namata.

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