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MANIPULATION TECHNIQUES USED BY THIS GOLD DIGGER

new-samsung-pix-6413 Psychological manipulation is defined as the exercise of undue influence through mental distortion and emotional exploitation, with the intention to seize power, control, benefits and/or privileges at the victim’s expense.

 Psychopaths walk among us and look all normal. Annest Namata walks amongst you whilst hiding behind religion claiming she is born again, claiming she is a business woman, all the while being evil to people and stealing from them. Here’s how to resist the evilness of this narcissistic psychopath.

Psychopaths aren’t just the villains in slasher movies and morality tales. They walk among us every day, appearing at first like normal people. The same goes for narcissists.

The long and short of it is this: In the course of a normal day, you’re almost guaranteed to run into a few truly toxic narcissist and psychopath like  Annest Namata who will try to abuse and manipulate you.download-1new-samsung-pix-11491

The excerpts below might seem extensive, but these short summaries below are actually just a small fraction of the advice available in the whole blog; #Truthbomb

  Gaslighting

“Gaslighting is a manipulative tactic that can be described in different variations of three words: ‘That didn’t happen,’ ‘You imagined it,’ and ‘Are you crazy?'” Gaslighting is perhaps one of the most insidious manipulative tactics she uses because it works to distort and erode your sense of reality; it eats away at your ability to trust yourself and inevitably disables you from feeling justified in calling out abuse and mistreatment.”

How can you fight back? “Ground yourself in your own reality–sometimes writing things down as they happened, telling a friend, or reiterating your experience to a support network can help to counteract the gaslighting effect.

 Projection

You know when she claims all the nastiness that surrounds her is not her fault, but yours? That’s called projection. Narcissists do it a lot. “Projection is a defense mechanism used to displace responsibility of one’s negative behaviour and traits by attributing them to someone else.

The solution; “Don’t ‘project’ your own sense of compassion or empathy onto her and don’t own any of her projections either. Projecting our own conscience and value system onto others has the potential consequence of being met with further exploitation by her. Don’t forget that  she is an opportunistic thief.

Generalisations

She fails to consider the long-term ramifications of certain decisions. This psychopath will claim you called her “a loose cannon.” You noted this could possibly go south if X, Y, and Z conditions occur.

What’s going on? It’s not just that your nemesis didn’t understand what you said. It’s that she had no interest in understanding because she is busy 

having affairs and sleeping around with several other men to have attention for you. She always fools someone into believing they are her partner, she will fool him that she refers to him as husband but all the while she is sleeping around with all types of men for money and material things.

Malignant narcissists aren’t always intellectual masterminds–many of them are intellectually lazy. Rather than taking the time to carefully consider a different perspective, they generalise anything and everything you say, making blanket statements that don’t acknowledge the nuances in your argument or take into account the multiple perspectives you’ve paid homage to.

To counter it, hold onto your truth and resist generalising statements by realising that they are in fact forms of black and white illogical thinking.

Deliberately moving the goal posts

Narcissists/sociopaths employ a logical fallacy known as moving the goal posts in order to ensure that they have every reason to be perpetually dissatisfied with you. This is when even after you’ve provided all the evidence in the world to validate your argument or taken an action to meet their request, they set up another expectation of you or demand more. This woman always moves the goal posts to justify her actions however wrong they may be.

Don’t play to her games. Validate and approve of yourself. Know that you are enough and you don’t have to be made to feel constantly deficient or unworthy in some way. Don’t forget she is a villager of a whore.

Changing the subject

Switching conversational topics sounds innocent enough, but in the hands of a master manipulator like Annest namata, a change of subject becomes a means tonew-samsung-pix-7484-copy avoid accountability. Narcissists don’t want you to be on the topic of holding them accountable for anything, so she will reroute discussions to benefit herself.

This sort of thing can go on forever if you let it, making it impossible to actually engage on the relevant issue. Try the broken record method to fight back: Continue stating the facts without giving in to her distractions. Redirect her redirection by saying, ‘That’s not what I am talking about. Let’s stay focused on the real issue.’ If she’s not interested, disengage and spend your energy on something more constructive. In the end you will find that you are wasting your valuable time on her.

Name-calling/Demeaning

Just because you’ve been dealing with this one since you encountered your first playground bully doesn’t make it any less destructive and apparently it continues. You will find out her name calling from friends and family. In your face she will pretend she is all nicey nicey and wife material. Behind your back she will talk nasty and dirty about you to a point of saying that you are lucky to have her.

Simply don’t tolerate it. It’s important to end any interaction that consists of name-calling and communicate that you won’t tolerate it.  Don’t internalise it: Realise that she’s resorting to name-calling because she’s deficient in higher level methods. Don’t forget she is a villager trying to pass herself off as a bourgoisie.

The Silent Treatmentsilent-treatment

By deliberately not responding to your reasonable calls, text messages, emails, or other inquiries, the manipulator presumes power by making you wait, and intends to place doubt and uncertainty in your mind. The silent treatment is a head game where silence is used as a form of leverage.  She does this a lot.

YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH ONE VERSION OF HER THAT SHE WANTS YOU TO BELIEVE SHE IS AND EXPECT HER TO STAY THE SAME BUT SHE NEVER DOES. AFTER SHE GETS FROM YOU MONEY AND MATERIAL THINGS, THE REAL EVIL DECEITFUL ANNEST NAMATA COMES OUT.

Dirty Smear campaigns

She will try to control the way you see yourself, the way you her friends that you know about when she has fallen out with them,the way you see your friends and close family and if she fails she will start to control how others see you. She will play the martyr while you’re labelled the toxic bad one. Her smear campaign is a pre-emptive strike to sabotage your reputation and slander your name. That is why I chose to expose her in this blog for what she is then she tried threatening and intimidating me using a foolish man whom I confronted and he denied it.

Sometimes true evil will even divide and conquer, pitting two people or groups against each other. Don’t let them succeed. Document any form of harassment, and make sure not to rise to the bait and let her horribleness provoke you into behaving in just the sort of negative ways she falsely attributed to you. For many years she tried her hardest to divide me with family and family friends. She is pure evil hiding behind religion.

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Manipulators are masters at manufacturing urgency. They do this through stall tactics that are often preposterous. Some of the more outlandish ones my ex has used include: “My file cabinet is jammed and I can’t get the papers”; “I can’t read your e-mail, you will have to change your font”; “I’m going out of town” — always somewhere off the grid, like Siberia Adjacent — and won’t have access to e-mail, cell phone, fax, or messenger. Eventually the truth reveals itself.

Devaluation 

Beware when she as your colleague or friend seems to love you while aggressively denigrating the last person who held your position. Narcissists do this all the time–they devalue their exes to their new partners, and eventually the new partner starts to receive the same sort of mistreatment as the narcissist’s ex-partner. But this dynamic happens in the professional realm as well as the personal one.

Simple awareness of the phenomenon is the first step to countering it. Be wary of the fact that how a person treats or speaks about someone will potentially translate into the way they will treat you in the near future. She did it to me. She devalued her exe even using my phone to message him then later devalued me to her affair man she was sleeping around with.

Pretend Ignorance download-2

This is the classic “playing dumb” tactic. By pretending she or he doesn’t understand what you want, or what you want her to do, the manipulator/passive-aggressive makes you take on what is her responsibility, and gets you to break a sweat. If she has done something wrong like sleep around with other men, when you ask her something in relation to that subject, her answer is “I don’t know”. If money is missing and you ask her, she will not look at you in the eye but will answer you “I don’t know”. She uses this tactic in order to delay, stall, and manipulate you into doing for her what she doesn’t want to do. She also uses this tactic as well when she has something to hide, or obligation she wishes to avoid like stealing from form you and cheating on you with other men.

 Aggressive jokes

The problem isn’t your sense of humour, it’s the hidden intention of that cutting joke. Covert narcissists like her enjoy making very malicious remarks at your expense. These are usually dressed up as ‘just jokes’ so that they can get away with saying appalling things while still maintaining an innocent, cool demeanor. Yet any time you are outraged at an insensitive, harsh remark, you are accused of having no sense of humour.

Don’t let the manipulative evil abuser gaslight you into thinking it was all innocent fun–it wasn’t.

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She enjoys “wannabe intellectual bullying” by presuming to be the expert and most knowledgeable in certain areas. She takes advantage of you by imposing alleged facts, statistics, and other data you may know little about. For example, she will think she knows the doing business in Uganda better than you. This can happen in sales and financial situations, in discussions and negotiations, as well as in social and relational arguments. By presuming expert power over you, this manipulator hopes to push through her agenda more convincingly. Simply know that she is a thief trying to con you at any cost and in any way even if it means having sex with you.

Triangulation

One of the ways truly toxic people distract you from their nastiness is by focusing your attention on the supposed threat of another person. This is called triangulation. Narcissists love to ‘report back’ falsehoods about what others say about you. To resist the tactic, realise that the third party in the drama is being manipulated as well–he or she is another victim, not your enemy.

You can also try reverse triangulation, or gaining support from a third party that is not under this narcissist’s influence.

Honest people are easy marks for smooth-talking narcissists and master manipulators. Yet that’s only part of the reason narcissists pull off their shell games. The other reason is that she has honed her machiavellian skills into an art form. That’s why she brags about it. DON’T ALLOW YOURSELF TO BECOME HER VICTIM.

Have you personally experienced any of her deceitful manipulation techniques?

Know the games this toxic manipulating born again con called Annest Namata plays so that you can come out on top and not be her victim. Many men have fallen victim to her gold digging and thieving. 

DON’T let this thief fool you that she loves you when all she is after is your money.

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ARE YOU BEING MANIPULATED BY THIS GOLD DIGGER/THIEF?

new-samsung-pix-7445 Knowing how this psychopath Annest Namata uses emotion to manipulate you can help you protect yourself and not allow her to fool you into believing that she is genuine. Never ever believe that she is religious and righteous. SHE IS NOT TRUSTWORTHY AT ALL.  A THIEF/CON CAN NEVER BE TRUSTWORTHY.

Manipulation is an evolving process over time especially by this cruel manipulative hypocrite.. Victims are controlled through a series of promised gains and threatened losses covertly executed through a variety of manipulation tactics. In otherwords, the manipulation builds up gradually as Annest detoothNamata creates uncertainty and doubt by going back and forth from hot to cold, by going back and forth from giving you what you desire to taking it away and making promises as a whore and thief she is, which promises she will never fulfil.

What is detoothing?

Detoothing is when a woman in this case gives the impression to the opposite sex she is interested in them and acts genuine, to be able to get other favours and steals from the men. Detoothing is more suitably classified as a habit.

 She exploits the age of free coffees, free lunches on account of a bleached makeup filled face in Kampala and other cities around. In Uganda, she is well-known as a callous DETOOTHER a Ugandan local term used to describe a woman who sleeps around with different men and steals from them. She steals from men and sleeps around a lot. You will often find her flaunting her cleavage plus exposing her bleached body, giggling like a fool at whatever her male counterpart is saying, batting her eyelashes, showing off petty things, walking like an old age dog swaying her non-existent hips trying hard to get different men’s attention wherever she goes. Look up those big hotels and restaurants in kampala, you will find her there.

While she is with you, she will receive calls from other men and you will often hear her answering on the phone  ‘SHYA!’ as she plans to leech money finance01pixoff another man. Being a super maestro in the bedroom is a lucrative plus for her. She will play any monkey trick to get you hooked and if you are foolish, you will fall for her pretence that she loves you. To Annest she knows that from here, it’s a smooth ride to the bank then she will start asking the man to buy her a car. That is why she goes to the national prayer mountain on Entebbe road to break the demons that haunt her.

Kanye West must have been inspired by Ugandan Gold Diggers like Annest before he composed the gold digger classic. She has innate village syndrome and rotten mannerisms and will give you excuse after excuse to avoid being committed to you because she has other men and a main whom she gold digs from. I’d rather remain single and miserable than date this evil gold digger called Annest Namata. Had I known the truth before, I would not have let step anywhere near me.

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Emotional manipulation is an abuse. If you are in a relationship with this deceitful thief Annest, no good will come of it in the long run. She does not value or respect you or your well-being but she makes you think she does.

For most of us, the labelpsychopath may seem far-fetched because it summons images of cold-blooded serial killers. But psychopathy is a complex condition that scientists still struggle to fully understand and describe. However for some of us who have dealt with an evil narcissistic person such Annest, we know what we are talking about and are not afraid to express our experience to the world.

A psychological assessment used to measure psychopathic traits in an individual measures if and how individuals display behaviours such as pathological lying, a grandiose sense of self-worth, cunning manipulation, a lack of behavioural control and remorse, and an unwillingness to accept responsibility for actions (among 013a4ed1469b28311218b82c4ac830cdothers).

There are people like this Annest Namata who are part-way up the scale, high enough to warrant an assessment for psychopathy, but not high enough up to cause obvious problems. Often, these kind of people are our friends and maybe fun for some people because she is very good at pretending when she wants something from you. She will take advantage of you every now and then. It starts off subtle and she is able to talk her way around it. The exact description of Annest Namata who masks it all by claiming she is very religious and also claims that she is a successful businesswoman when she is actually a thief who manipulates people to trust her and steals from them. I am one such person she manipulated into believing that she loved me and would do anything to work with me as a life partner. Her aim and objective all along was to steal from me along the way and when I stopped trusting her after finding out about her thefts from me, she stole much more. I also found out she was a kampala whore for the highest bidder.

Here are a few of her methods of manipulating people:

1. She uses empathy to her advantage.

Psychopaths aren’t capable of feeling or having any empathy.

Psychopaths are specialists in cognitive empathy. She just doesn’t care what you’re thinking or feeling. So she can use you against yourself. Dust settles Annest Namata does not. She is very jumpy from man to man. You can never have a long healthy relationship with her.

2. She can turn emotions on and off in an instant. (Very cold evil hearted Whore)download-4

She doesn’t completely lack empathy be it pretentious empathy…. If she wants to, she can empathize to suit her selfish intentions, and that explains how she can be so charming to fool you until she gets what she wants from you and then be so manipulative and evil. This is a full description of a psychotic prostitute.

3. She uses fear against you.

For example, how do you react if you’re suddenly startled by a loud noise? Most individuals will jump or immediately develop sweaty palms. However, experiments show that psychopaths barely startle–and their hands stay dry. So notice that her palms remain dry.

Again, cognitive empathy comes into play. And this is part of what makes this psychopath dangerous. She can manipulate situations or exaggerate facts to scare you into action, without feeling fear or  any  remorse. She is too selfish to care. She is also ready to risk going to prison after stealing money and material things from you.

4. She lies/deceives a lot.

kjSince psychopaths are concerned primarily with reaching their own goals, deceit is viewed simply as a means to an end. She presents a distorted view of reality by exploiting one side of a story or entwining truth and lie so well that it’s difficult for many to distinguish fact from fiction.

5. She chooses to act ignorant when it suits her.

Neuroscientists who study mood and anxiety disorders in the book The Psychopath: Emotion and the Brain, state the following:

Screenshot_2016-06-13-09-37-23-1 Whereas most people automatically anticipate the consequences of their actions, automatically feel shame for unkind deeds, automatically understand why they should persist in the face of frustration, automatically distrust propositions that seem too good to be true, and are automatically aware of their commitments to others, psychopaths may only become aware of such factors with effort.

In other words, Annest Namata the psychopath says and does things without any feeling of shame or thought of how those actions affect others–allowing her to take whatever action she desires in the pursuit of her own self-aggrandizing goals. Her goal is to get your money and material things.

If you are in a relationship with her of any kind…;

  • Your joy of finding love has turned into fear of losing it. Things got to such an amazing start and you are not sure what went wrong. Your feelings have gone from happiness and euphoria to anxiety, sadness and even depression.
  • You are unhappy in the relationship a lot of the time but you dread losing it because you are happy every now and then when it suits her.
  • Your relationship feels very complex but you are not sure why. When you talk to your friends about it, you find yourself saying ” it is hard to explain, its just really complicated….”
  • You obsess about the relationship. You endlessly analyse every aspect of it as you try to figure it out. You talk about it constantly to whoever will listen. None of this gets you anywhere because as you do that the deceitful Annest Namata is bragging how you are crazy about her — pretty damn stupid and idiotic of her if you ask me.
  • You never feel sure of where you stand in the relationship because she is always going to sleep around with different men for money, which leaves you in a perpetual state of uncertainty and anxiety.
  • You always feel on the defensive. You frequently find yourself feeling misunderstood, so you feel the need to explain and defend yourself often.
  • You seem to have developed a problem with trust, jealousy and insecurity which she will point out to you constantly after all she has manipulated you into feeling that by making herself feel like she is the most important person in the world you cannot do without when in fact you can very easily.
  • Expressing negative thoughts and emotions feels restricted or even forbidden. So you try to keep those things hidden. You get frustrated because important things go unsaid and bottled up.
  • You find yourself apologising a lot for even things that are her fault. Take note, the slut does not apologise to you for the wrong she does to you and for any disrespect which will be in abundance.
  • You will find yourself doing things you don’t agree with or allow her to do because they are against your principles and values in order to keep her happy (so u think) and keep the relationship as going concern. DON’T WASTE YOUR PRECIOUS TIME.

  • You never know when life will bring you into direct contact with this Annest Namata the psychopath–or at the very least, one who exhibits traits that are commonly identified with psychopathy.

That’s exactly why you should sharpen your own emotional intelligence to protect yourself from her when you need it the most.

Knowing if you are being manipulated is actually a lot easier and more obvious than you might think.

DO NOT CONFUSE THE DECEITFUL FAKE APPEARANCE OF WEALTH WITH REAL WEALTH. DON’T LET HER FOOL YOU.

A TIME WILL COME WHEN RED LIPSTICK, PAINTED NAILS, EXPOSED BLEACHED BODY, BLACK BLEACHED HAIR, ADJUSTED TIGHT CLOTHES TO SEDUCE MEN, WILL MAKE NO DIFFERENCE TO ANYONE BECAUSE SHE WILL HAVE PASSED HER SALE BY DATE.

TAKE HEED – YOU HAVE NO SOCIAL OBLIGATION TO BE VICTIMIZED BY THIS MATERIALISTIC GOLD DIGGING THIEF.

Better still, so many men in Uganda, kampala from areas around Ntinda, Kololo, Mutungo and Entebbe to mention but a few have still got caught with bad memories of Annest Namata’s detoothing antics. One wonders where her habit drives her! She is a great admirer of “How I went from a pauper to having money overnight” by Prof. Bad Black and other bleached gold diggers aka detoothers around kampala.”

She used to say to me “I want to be like the bleached women in town“. I thought she was joking. Little did I know I was in a relationship with a Slut. From that point on I watched her behaviour.

Don’t cry foul when you have been spending enormous amounts of money and time on her despite these warning as she gets accustomed to sponging off you.

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