Is it Lust or Love? To know the difference is really important because both emotions offer the same feelings and it’s hard to differentiate between the two, especially in the early stages of a relationship. Annest namata will pretend to be what she is not. She will do anything to get at you because she wants your money, passport, property, material things, status, etc. DO NOT BELIEVE THAT SHE IS GOD FEARING. She uses religion to con people.
Everybody needs love. However, give it to the wrong person and it destroys and kills, give it to the right person and it creates magic. Do not expect magic with her.
BEWARE: Annest namata steals in the name of religion and or under the disguise of love. This was confirmed by her villager friend who was trying to intimidate me for revealing the truth about Annest namata the thief. He grew up in the same village she grew up and he said she steals from men under the disguise of love. I was brought up to be a trusting person and this village thief called annest namata took advantage of my trust claiming that she was in love but for her it was all lust.
She will use sex to lure you and seal the deal. That is her main emotional manipulation tactic Men being on her menu is very important to her.
Here are some clues that will help you in the process of labeling emotions as love or lust.
Individuals who are openly trusting or generally seek to find the good in others are more apt to find themselves targeted by Annest than those who tend to challenge her to “prove” herself. Misplaced respect and trust often leads people to rationalize or minimize the odd or unusual behaviour that does occur in exchanges with this evil thief. She appear to easily “become” whatever it is her potential victim wants her to be, morphing into “ideal” mates, business partners, or friends. She chooses her victims based on a combination of opportunity and their perceived ability to manipulate the targeted individuals.
Being well dressed is okay and makes you look chic and classy, but hey! she spends too much time and money on her dressing, money she gets from different men. Is it “dress to impress” sort of situation? In her case it is a big YES! Think again and have another look at what you are doing with her. The point is, when its love, you barely pay attention to dressing and styling that much. For you it’s all about being comfortable and accepting your significant other for who he/she really is, and vice versa. The comfort comes with comfortable dressing. It depends on you, if you choose denim or a pyjama. At the end of the day, if you are choosing comfort it’s a sign of love. Annest Namata dresses to impress the men she is trying hard to get attention where ever she goes on a constant basis because she doesnt know what love is despite using the word love in a very fake way. She is very deceitful thus her sleeping around. Getting mens attention and having sex with them is love according to her.
Pointing out mistakes:
This point is a great clue for identifying your emotion. When you are in love, you tend to point out your love interests mistakes. It’s not because you want to dominate them, it’s simply because you want them to get rid of things that are a hindrance in their way to be a better person. You want them to improve and grow as a person. Similarly, when its lust, you just go with the flow, you don’t care what they are doing; it’s your lust that you want to deal with. You don’t want to point out their mistakes or help them groom morally. Now that’s a big indication of what Annest namata is about. All she cares about is herself. If she comments at all it will for her good look on you as she lusts for you.
When you point out anything to Annest namata, she is all defensive all because she is guilty of being promiscuous OR because men outside the homestead have complimented her and she is all out to please them for the money and other material things she wants from them.
Constant aim to please:
In love you keep it real. You are honest about yourself and things associated to you. Just like you don’t dress to impress, you don’t speak to impress too. Deep down you know your significant other will always admire your honesty. When its lust you say what the next person wants to listen. You won’t tell her that you don’t like this dress on her, or her makeup is a mess today. When in love, you’ll tell her what looks good on her, what doesn’t go well with her personality. It doesn’t involve lies or buttering. It’s genuine and real. So yes! Constant aim to please the next person is a big sign of lust.
When its lust the next person is perfect and in fact a Greek god or goddess for you. He or she has no imperfections or nothing that devalues them. .
But in the case of love, your person is perfectly imperfect. And it doesn’t bother you, after all we are all humans and we are supposed to be imperfect. Trust us! Being pretentious and lying about how cool and perfect the next person, is annoying and exhausting. Perfection is just an illusion. And nobody can ever be perfect, no matter what. So watch how Annest namata lusts after you and you will be a fool to think it is real love. All the while she will be telling all her friends etc that you are absolutely crazy for her.
You know them:
This one is simple. When it’s lust, the bond is very superficial and has no depth. You really don’t know them. When you are in love, you know your significant other really well. You know red is his favourite colour, He is allergic to peanuts or milk, he hates drama, and has watched her favourite movie over a hundred times. You’ll know he doesn’t like to bottle up things and discusses everything right away. You would know everything and every detail about that person. From their shoe size to their wild fantasies, literally everything. You think Annest namata is interested in knowing that about you? Dream on. She knew everything about me before she even met me so that she could fool me into thinking that she loved but it was in order to get material things and money nothing more.
Comfort level is really important in your every relationship. When its love you share a great comfort love with your person. You do not hesitate to talk about your problems, fears and concern. You trust them and want to tell them everything about yourself. That’s how the love grows further and the bond you share gets strengthened. In case of lust, you will just fake it, you won’t share anything with them. You will always wonder if you can trust this person or if he will understand you with judging you? The confusion indicates lust and the confidence that the next person is trust worthy indicates the presence of love. Annest namata just fakes love. It is not genuine love, it is simply lust simply because she is a promiscuous gold digger servicing many other men in town.
When you are in lust, nothing is certain or known in long-term. Yes! We are denying the fact that you enjoy their company, jokes, dates and all that stuff, but what after that? Will this go on and on? There is no certainty. You won’t be sure about having this person in your future. When you think of your future, you don’t imagine them in it. They are in the current moment but nowhere to be seen in long-term. In the case of love, you can’t imagine a life without them; future that doesn’t include your significant other is nothing but a nightmare for you.
You enjoy the thought of the future that pictures your person by your side, the travelling, the make out sessions, the babies, the fights over insignificant things, the hang outs and literally everything. So yes! Its love, when you want that person to be there in your future. Annest namata is able to switch relationships with different men because she fakes love but it is all lust. That is why she is able to sleep with tom, Dick and Harry and she doesn’t see anything wrong with that. So let her fool you that she is married. We have seen many like fool people that they are married. She used to tell a select few that her and I were married but is when she wanted something of saying that. If I went to any office with her that involved money payment, she would want me to tell them that she is my wife.
People warned me against her that she was a SLUT, Gold digger and a Thief, but I never listened at the time. I didnt listen because without me saying anything or telling her what I was being told, she was pre-emptying the truth by telling me constantly “For me I am different. I am not like other women. I am very trustworthy and honest”, “don’t listen to what people are telling you”, etc. Total lies. She sleeps around with very many men but hides under the born again enigma.Believe her lies at your peril.
I tried and did everything and gave her a life she had never had before and I have witnesses to this, but in vain. Sad but true… and her usual typical game to reverse the blame will not changing on the facts.I found out a lot of things about her which are very shocking.
What angers me so much is that whenever I would send her the monthly allowance and give her other monies, she would spend it with her new men(she sleeps around with) bragging that she is a successful business woman. She went to the point of taking those men to my properties and claiming that they are her properties and giving them my cars to drive while I was away. She took them to our bed too and had sex with them. Annest Namata is a thief and prostitute.
If Annest namata manages to fool you that she loves you, just know that she is scheming and is fooling you with a long term plan of stealing from you, getting at your assets, getting her name on your assets and bank accounts. Always know that you are dealing with a pretentious dangerous self proclaimed christian deceitful born again. Over time you will know that to Annest namata it is all about money nothing else. #BornAgainMyFoot
What she wants is to first of all get access to your Bank accounts and credit facilities. She will convince you that everybody trusts her and therefore you should trust her too. You dare make that grave mistake. I made that mistake and she stole from me. She will steal at the earliest opportunity. Know that you are dealing with a thief and an unstable whore.
I loved her so much, whilst she lusted after me like she does with all men and makes them think she is in love with them. I gave her my cards to my accounts and bought her cars and many other things that her parents could not afford to give her that she dreamed about. She still stole from me and stole my car at the end of it all. You cannot change a leopards skin. Annest namata will always be a thief and a whore no matter what you do for her.
When it is Christmas time, she starts asking “What are you giving me for christmas?”, Where is my Christmas?”, “What am I getting for Christmas”, etc. What she is after is money. EVERYTHING to Annest namata is about money. She always used to ask me these questions despite having access to my money and after she has stolen but she was still asking me to send her more.
I shopped for her every little thing you can imagine from lingerie to bras, I repeat everything. She still slept around with so many other men and even brought men to my house and slept with them in our room and bed. Now you tell me why you will believe if she tells you that she is born again. Maybe a born again thief and slut.
Do NOT let this thief called Namata Annest con you. She is a pathological liar who only tells the truth by accident. Believe she is honest and religious at your grave peril. You would be very foolish to believe that her filthy hypocrisy and deceit is love.
She will try her best to trap you by getting pregnant when she wants to seal her gold digging plans because she knows she will be able to get money and other material things from you.
While it is likely that no one is immune from victimization, some may be better candidates for victimization by this concubine than others, often simply by being decent, trusting people.
To her you are very replaceable as she is always on the lookout for other men to sleep with for money.
Honesty is a power that a few people can handle
This is NOT Character Assassination. This is Real Life Character Revelation