“Arrogance cometh before reality.” – Wes Fessler
Annest Namata’s disgusting Arrogance:
Like all her main features, Annest Namata’s arrogance involves the following components:
- Early negative experiences in her childhood and early adulthood. She is stuck in needing to put herself first and thinking she is ultra important.
- Misconceptions about the nature of self, life or others. Her being in life depends upon how others see her thus her delusions of grandeur. That’s why she always says “What will people say”. “I wish you knew what people are saying”. i.e. the people she lies to and makes believe she is what she is not.
- A constant fear and sense of insecurity on her part. She always thinks she must always appear to be “better” in some way than what she would refer to as her rivals by exaggerating her self-worth and drawing out others weaknesses
- A maladaptive strategy to protect herself. The most primitive form of this is blatant, shameless boastfulness combined with outright derision of others to their faces
- A persona to hide all of the above in adulthood
It is unacceptable to be too obviously arrogant and manipulative in most adult settings. All she does is go around bragging. She looks at people and treats them like she is the best thing that has ever happened to the world and thinks everyone has to worship her.
QUESTION FOR ANNEST:
What have you Annest achieved that warrants your obnoxious arrogance??
Arrogance hides her ignorance. Annest puts on arrogance as a veil/curtain to hide her ignorance. Arrogant people are full of ignorance.
Arrogance is a mixture of impertinence, disobedience, undisciplined, rudeness and harshness.
Certain people fear to approach arrogant persons like Annest and this helps her to hide the fact that she knows nothing. Thus the ignorance.
Where there is appreciation, there is courtesy, there is concern for the rights and property of others.
Without appreciation for what I did for her and everything I did for her, there is arrogance and evil deeds. This is attributable to Annest’s character.
“The truest characters of ignorance are Vanity are Pride and Arrogance”. Samuel Butler
What is the definition of Vanity? Vanity is an excessive pride in one’s appearance, qualities, abilities, achievements, etc.
Arrogance leads people like her to sickness of mind and incorrect behaviour wherever she goes. That was manifested in her disgusting behaviour with me and is self-evident with her behaviour with others.
People like her who live in a state of arrogance and continuous deception inhabit a very dark internal world.
A pitch black world full of a sincere dread/fear of losing, making a mistake, being disgraced or humiliated, stress, doubt, hatred, anger and passion…This state of mind wears people down and ages them; it has a severe impact on their psychological and physical well-being. People like her who are spiritually weaker than others, are cold. It is barely possible to expect any genuine pleasant gesture, an honest genuine sign of love or appreciation, or a genuine honest encouraging word from her. It is hard to laugh or enjoy oneself in her presence.
Whenever she attends a meeting she tries to be the most impressive speaker despite the fact that she is not which ends up embarrassing her, the best dressed, to come up with what she thinks are the most intelligent solutions, and to draw the most attention to herself in any way possible. She is constantly “on tenterhooks”. Her behaviour is never honest, sincere and genuine. She thinks she will never make a mistake when she makes a tonne of them.
She therefore lives in a constant state of discomfort. Ultimately, she will never find peace and contentment. This goes to explain why she is never content with what she has. Thus the need to have affairs even in our long term committed relationship in order to get money and material things and the constant need for attention. Arrogant people like her engage in exaggerated and attention-seeking behaviour in the way they walk, talk and look. This if you the reader know Annest Namata is exactly what she does. She thinks she is better than everybody else.
Nothing is so unpalatable to arrogant people like her as to meet with scorn where they expected an unqualified admission of superiority.
What Annest does not realise is that her Arrogance is the obstruction of wisdom thus exposing her sheer ignorance.
“Arrogance is a senseless creature. It does not have senses.
It has only a sharp tongue and the pointing finger.” All she does is point fingers.
Annest ought to have some sense of class but obviously she does not have class whatsoever but as a narcissist she thinks she does.
“Class is an aura of confidence that is being sure without being cocky. Class has nothing to do with money or achievements if any or the mixing/mingling with certain people in whatever capacity. Class never runs scared. It is self-discipline and self-knowledge. It’s the sure-footedness that comes with having proved you can meet life. ”
“Pride is the mother of arrogance.” ― Toba Beta
Arrogance frowns; pride smiles. For those who know, look at her frowning lines on her face going deeper in the skin on the face then you will understand that arrogance frowns.
You are an adult and you are responsible for where you are. If you don’t like where you are, then make a change within yourself. Constantly changing from one partner to the next will only bring temporary relief. All true change must happen from within and the circumstances of your life will also change.
An arrogant person like you Annest can’t make me feel bad any more, because it’s so easy to see through her once you know that she is faking it and she fakes it all the time. She puts on this mask because she fears that others will see through her, will understand that no, they’re not happy with her. I see arrogance as a sad state now, a state in which people like Annest tries to hide behind the perceived money she gets the immoral way. It is not a lot but she thinks it is a lot which is not by any standards at all or her breeding/upbringing which is dismal or her social standing which is make belief or her position of “power” which is not worth mentioning because it is not worth being, but a state in which she’ll never be able to let her true self shine through. . . .
She works excessively hard at trying to have class by using and cheating people of money and their material things to give those who don’t know her the impression that she has class. Annest Namata does not have any class at all. She is a low life trying to achieve respect by stealing from people.
For anyone who wants to dispute that, I am a victim and I am here to make it plain and clear what she did to me and has done to many others before.
Annest, be arrogant if you wish and all you want. Look down on others and treat them poorly, if you wish and all you want. But realise that as you do so, you’re only allowing your own inner weaknesses to shine through, and you’re not fooling anyone. Not the people around you, who hold you in disdain, not the God who made you and loves you and knows all about you, and not yourself.
HER DELUSIONS OF GRANDEUR:
Arrogant people like Annest Namata imagine that every characteristic they possess belongs to themselves. For example, she imagines that her current intelligence stems from herself. Instead of realising that it is a blessing bestowed on her by God and giving thanks for it, she regards it as something to be proud of.
By over estimating this attribute in her own eyes she belittles and disparages those around her. As a result of this behaviour, her associates find her unattractive and repellent. That means that arrogant people like Annest never have true, honest friends who feel a genuine affection for them.
She also finds it difficult to demonstrate affection for others.
She always wants to be the only object of love, admiration and affection in any given setup, because in her own eyes she is more superior to everybody else. This state of mind leads to another behavioural defect; envy. She envies the beauty, intelligence, reason, moral values or worldly goods of others regardless of where she is. That envy manifests itself into hatred.
She regards everything those people possess with a jealous eye.
Take Note: If someone with superior features to her own is present, she immediately wants to leave the room or building. If she meets someone more arrogant and or challenging her arrogance, she wants to leave the room immediately or she dares to complain that they have an attitude. However, she doesnt assess her own attitude that she carries around all the time. I have seen this happen on several occasions. Her envy means she is invariably unable to get along with others especially of superior quality, superior knowledge and class to her. She will then start talking bad about them.
God/Allah has given a troublesome mood to people like her who are grabbed by the sickness of arrogance. In the same way that arrogant people gain nothing but trouble, sorrow and unhappiness in the life of this world, they also forego the Hereafter and, most important of all, the love of God/Allah. God/Allah has revealed in one verse that He does not love the arrogant:
“Do not avert your face from people out of haughtiness and do not strut about arrogantly on the Earth. God/Allah does not love anyone who is vain or boastful. (Surah Luqman: 18)”
“Arrogance is a creature. It does not have senses. It has only a sharp tongue and the pointing finger”. -Toba Beta
“Be careful not to mistake insecurity and inadequacy for humility! Humility has nothing to do with the insecure and inadequate. Just like arrogance has nothing to do with greatness!” JoyBell C
Do not strut arrogantly about the Earth. You will certainly never split the earth apart nor will you ever rival the mountains in height.
Respect is something that is earned, never is respect just given or acquired.
Attitude and arrogance really gets you no where, no one likes arrogant obnoxious people, in hell even arrogant people cannot stand other arrogant people, I don’t care who you are.
Annest Namata’s Personality Disorder – (Narcissistic Personality Disorder):-
Total Lack of empathy is a hallmark of her Personality Disorder, and she finds it extremely difficult to understand others’ (and her own) emotional status and impact. Due to her Narcissism, she found it hard to understand my emotions despite the fact that we were in a relationship for four and a half years. This makes maintaining close and or intimate relationships significantly harder for her. She finds it difficult to perceive or admit this, or may interpret it as a virtue.
It is also worth noting that the individual expressions of grandiosity or arrogance vary with the her value system. She generally attempts to display superiority as she defines it.
- She manipulates, uses and exploits others to reach her selfish goals.
- She over reacts to constructive criticism, becoming angry or feeling humiliated
- Exaggerates her own importance in any setting
- Makes unrealistic fantasies about her achievements, power, beauty, intelligence or romance
- Has unreasonable expectations of favourable treatment
- Seeks constant attention and positive reinforcement from others in any way possible even immorally
- Is easily jealous even if you to a partner
- Has an unrealistic sense of entitlement to things that don’t belong to her
- Is very exploitative of others
- Lacks any empathy
- Displays arrogant and proud behaviour all the time
- Displays very haughty behaviour
- Uses the denial mechanism to downplay her own inadequacies or failings
- Uses rationalisation mechanism to justify her self-centered/selfish behaviour
- Is very contradictory in everything she says and does
“You can hate me but you can never be me. I am me, myself and I and you can never juxtapose yourself to me.”
Hypocrisy, Arrogance, Pride, Anger, Harshness, and Ignorance; are the whole marks of those who are born with demonic qualities. Annest has true demonic qualities.
All suffering is caused by total ignorance. Annest inflicts pain and suffering to others in pursuit of her evil self perceived happiness and satisfaction, true happiness comes from a sense of peace and contentment which must be achieved through the cultiv.
“Few moments in life are more gratifying than those when the arrogant like Annest Namata are exposed as the ignorant.” Wes Fessler.